While I have read a great deal of PUA material and scene a lot of daygame stuff on the net, it is something which I don’t see myself doing consistantly. The community only briefly touches on the subject, of no fap or porn. I really think a book could be written on this subject.
I am on Day 11 and the cutting out of porn has really helped. Today I was at the gym and an attractive women in her early to mid twenties was training right near me, I was trying to be polite by not stearing, as I virtually had her p**** steering right at me, I wasn’t doing anything deliberate to instigate this other than going about my normal workout. So far I am not experiencing the sudden onset of horniness which usually happens into week 3. If I can stay away from the porn and curb my anxiety I can sense more women coming into my everyday activity, without too much effort.
Ever thought of becoming a writer, coz you write really good stories. LoL I totally get what you mean when you talk about trying lots of things out to find your passion. In addition to that, i think thats what life is about anyways. Making the most of what yoi have got. Because the past is behind us, the future is not ganranteed and all we really have is today. All we really have is right now.
Keep in mind white guys doing a cold approach open with a blank slate. For Asian guys she's already assumed all sorts of things about you before you even open your mouth - and they're all negative. If white guys start with a baseline threshold of 0, for Asian guys it's in the negatives. Your goal is to get to 0. ASAP.
Also, way too many Asian guys have nasal voices with gay-sounding inflections. Stop that. An Asian guy with a deep, masculine baritone could even be sexy.
No bowl cuts.
And all the advice above is void if you've got an Asian accent. Accents are the biggest game-killer. Even Asian-American girls won't hook up with an Asian guy with an accent. Stick to FOBs.
Also helps if you have white friends and white hobbies. A Korean buddy of mine's hooked up with a few white girls - he's got a deep surfer dude voice, no accent, conventional "white suburban dude" interests (plays guitar, into rock music like Oasis and the Beatles, hobbies like fishing, skiing etc.) Basically a banana - white dude in yellow skin. Guys like this with game shouldn't have problems with white girls.
So, what’s going on? I asked Jim, one of the guys I see at the gym.
I don’t know know him too well, but he’s often been on the treadmill or the elliptical machine at the same time I have. So, we have a casual friendship. We talk about his work, his wife, Laura, and their two girls, and I talk my work, The Kid and Sean.
This weekend, Jim looked more ragged than what a long week and a hard workout would do to you.
“I’m not quite sure,” he said.
“What do you mean?”
“It’s Laura. She told me that she needs some space.”
My right foot flew off the stationary bike.
“Oh,” I said, trying hard to sound neutral.
“What do you think that means?”
Oh dear. Well, I know what it means, but I’m not sure he really wanted to hear the truth.
I have never hit a woman and never would. I was raised to protect women and any sign of a man getting physical with his woman in front of me will cause me to react.
I do not believe in violence unless it is absolutely necessary to protect yourself or someone else….and teach my children the same principals.
I don’t think men would be embarrassed by spousal abuse as there is the cultural chastisement from child hood “What? You are going to hit a girl?”.
Then again I’ve never been hit by a woman outside of my childhood or a karate class.
The comments I read here made me think that Kat is right that guys should speak up as they could end up holding the financial and legal bag.
For example, a small, maladjusted/violent spouse hits a man many times, he hits her once to stop it, she gets a mark, she goes to the police, she lies, the police/courts automatically take her side, etc.
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While I have read a great deal of PUA material and scene a lot of daygame stuff on the net, it is something which I don’t see myself doing consistantly. The community only briefly touches on the subject, of no fap or porn. I really think a book could be written on this subject.
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Hey Matt,
Ever thought of becoming a writer, coz you write really good stories. LoL I totally get what you mean when you talk about trying lots of things out to find your passion. In addition to that, i think thats what life is about anyways. Making the most of what yoi have got. Because the past is behind us, the future is not ganranteed and all we really have is today. All we really have is right now.
To having fun and finding our passion
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jenn March 10, 2008 at 5:38 pm
Keep in mind white guys doing a cold approach open with a blank slate. For Asian guys she's already assumed all sorts of things about you before you even open your mouth - and they're all negative. If white guys start with a baseline threshold of 0, for Asian guys it's in the negatives. Your goal is to get to 0. ASAP.
Also, way too many Asian guys have nasal voices with gay-sounding inflections. Stop that. An Asian guy with a deep, masculine baritone could even be sexy.
No bowl cuts.
And all the advice above is void if you've got an Asian accent. Accents are the biggest game-killer. Even Asian-American girls won't hook up with an Asian guy with an accent. Stick to FOBs.
Also helps if you have white friends and white hobbies. A Korean buddy of mine's hooked up with a few white girls - he's got a deep surfer dude voice, no accent, conventional "white suburban dude" interests (plays guitar, into rock music like Oasis and the Beatles, hobbies like fishing, skiing etc.) Basically a banana - white dude in yellow skin. Guys like this with game shouldn't have problems with white girls.
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rick October 3, 2008 at 4:08 pm
no brent smith? what?!
Bengall October 23, 2008 at 2:58 am
You shouldn’t have put Mehow on the list,he doesn’t deserve to be on the PUA list.Apparently Mehow is not even straight.
sangos October 27, 2008 at 7:14 pm
Nice blog teeming with master PUAs…thanx to Matt.
Cj. Apis October 28, 2008 at 9:59 am
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A decent list you got here. But you forgot to put my Friend Derek (Seduction Science).
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Don May 11, 2008 at 10:33 am
Hey Guys,
Awesome list!!
I want want to get in the game. i want to pick one of the best and follow him first to build a back bone. who would you suggest?
Thank you
Rafael Ferraço May 16, 2008 at 7:48 pm
This is one s*** list.
Solo May 30, 2008 at 12:47 pm
How about Carlos Xuma he should be on the list too :(
torres June 16, 2008 at 10:07 am
solid list. these are some of the best in the business.
but where is AFC Adam Lyons?? some of the guys on there are more business men than PUAs. if you dont know adam lyons, google him. that guy is sick.
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here is a video of him you can find more on you tube…
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I like Style, Asian Playboy, Juggler and Brad P. those guys are the greatest of all time. I like Mystery too he’s pretty kewl.
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Great list!
Would like everyone to also remember Franco, a truly insightful PUA.
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I’ve read some of Johnny Soporno’s stuff on the message boards. It’s definitely solid. He is a Stylelife coach isn’t he?
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So, what’s going on? I asked Jim, one of the guys I see at the gym.
I don’t know know him too well, but he’s often been on the treadmill or the elliptical machine at the same time I have. So, we have a casual friendship. We talk about his work, his wife, Laura, and their two girls, and I talk my work, The Kid and Sean.
This weekend, Jim looked more ragged than what a long week and a hard workout would do to you.
“I’m not quite sure,” he said.
“What do you mean?”
“It’s Laura. She told me that she needs
some space.”
My right foot flew off the stationary bike.
“Oh,” I said, trying hard to sound neutral.
“What do you think that means?”
Oh dear. Well, I know what it means, but I’m
not sure he really wanted to hear the truth.
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I have never hit a woman and never would. I was raised to protect women and any sign of a man getting physical with his woman in front of me will cause me to react.
I do not believe in violence unless it is absolutely necessary to protect yourself or someone else….and teach my children the same principals.
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I don’t think men would be embarrassed by spousal abuse as there is the cultural chastisement from child hood “What? You are going to hit a girl?”.
Then again I’ve never been hit by a woman outside of my childhood or a karate class.
The comments I read here made me think that Kat is right that guys should speak up as they could end up holding the financial and legal bag.
For example, a small, maladjusted/violent spouse hits a man many times, he hits her once to stop it, she gets a mark, she goes to the police, she lies, the police/courts automatically take her side, etc.
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