I'm not saying that you can be an unattractive guy and say nothing to get them. I'm saying that if you're moderately attractive, you'll get their attention when you're the only guy not hitting on them out of your group of friends. And wheus = you and me. difference b/t us => difference b/t you and me.
we = you and I. how we differ => how you and I differ.
You already know that proper grammar is important in this world
I think you're missing my point. When I dated two Asian girls at the same time? Every guy and his mother was hitting on them. When I met my ex-wife? Every guy and his mother was hitting on her, etc. The point is, I was competing with guys who were jocks and/or more physically attractive, yet I still got the girl. Why? Because I was the only decently attractive guy Not hitting on them.
Great posts. I just have a few questions. In the first part you talk about how looks do matter (which I agree with, not going to beat a dead horse here), but then in the 2nd part you say that you look like an average guy, but it's your attitude that gets you women. Isn't that contradictory? Or am I misunderstanding you?
And when you say that you ignore the attractive women do you mean you don't say anything at all to them, and that intrigues them because you're the attractive guy not talking to them? Or do you mean that you just don't hit on them constantly without trying to talk to them on a basic human level? Because for me, I've found that ignoring attractive women doesn't get them attracted to me. Either they sense my desperation or I need to get a better wardrobe, like you advocate, or get a better diet to pack on the pounds.
I like developing my thoughts on this subject and how it works. I’m not going to completely dismiss jealousy. I’m sorry to make a reference to your blog but it is relevant to point something out to you with the mention of your boyfriend: You yourself felt it. You can say its ‘unintentional’ but perhaps C should never meet this Interested Woman or use his ‘tool of darkness’ charming, social face on again if he doesn’t want you to feel this Dark Emotion that you cannot control. So was it really so horrid? When you both dealt with it? And won’t you be more secure when and if it might happen again (as in, might it actually be a good thing, indicating that you do actually care if you lose him, although you want him to be happy. Might it actually be a good thing, allowing you to share and heal with each other, thus feel closer. Or, all in all, might it not have been of much significance)?
Gone for awhile, while I work on a business venture with a good friend of mine, and go off on a few adventures with Puerto Rico (I hear that you go blind after taking 50 shots). Have I run out of content? F*** no. I do this s*** at least 3-4 days per week.
kracm November 6, 2012 at 1:35 am
NO!!!! You’re way off. The amount of sperm you contain is DIRECTLY linked to your testosterone levels which is directly linked to your energy levels.
Sperm contains essential minerals and vitamins ( even chi!), Specifically Zinc which is very important for sexual maturity and sexual maturity means increased testosterone levels.
Don’t ever try to create an excuse for ejaculation, You don’t just cancel out the consequences of ejaculation just by feeling confident.
While I have read a great deal of PUA material and scene a lot of daygame stuff on the net, it is something which I don’t see myself doing consistantly. The community only briefly touches on the subject, of no fap or porn. I really think a book could be written on this subject.
I am on Day 11 and the cutting out of porn has really helped. Today I was at the gym and an attractive women in her early to mid twenties was training right near me, I was trying to be polite by not stearing, as I virtually had her p**** steering right at me, I wasn’t doing anything deliberate to instigate this other than going about my normal workout. So far I am not experiencing the sudden onset of horniness which usually happens into week 3. If I can stay away from the porn and curb my anxiety I can sense more women coming into my everyday activity, without too much effort.
Ever thought of becoming a writer, coz you write really good stories. LoL I totally get what you mean when you talk about trying lots of things out to find your passion. In addition to that, i think thats what life is about anyways. Making the most of what yoi have got. Because the past is behind us, the future is not ganranteed and all we really have is today. All we really have is right now.
Keep in mind white guys doing a cold approach open with a blank slate. For Asian guys she's already assumed all sorts of things about you before you even open your mouth - and they're all negative. If white guys start with a baseline threshold of 0, for Asian guys it's in the negatives. Your goal is to get to 0. ASAP.
Also, way too many Asian guys have nasal voices with gay-sounding inflections. Stop that. An Asian guy with a deep, masculine baritone could even be sexy.
No bowl cuts.
And all the advice above is void if you've got an Asian accent. Accents are the biggest game-killer. Even Asian-American girls won't hook up with an Asian guy with an accent. Stick to FOBs.
Also helps if you have white friends and white hobbies. A Korean buddy of mine's hooked up with a few white girls - he's got a deep surfer dude voice, no accent, conventional "white suburban dude" interests (plays guitar, into rock music like Oasis and the Beatles, hobbies like fishing, skiing etc.) Basically a banana - white dude in yellow skin. Guys like this with game shouldn't have problems with white girls.