When you first meet your significant other it was all beautiful and exciting. The love between you two was so intense and it was like you were made for each other.
But after a long period of time together, doing the same thing over and over again with the same person, you will start feeling like the fire that was intense initially is now dying out; It not that you stop loving the person, but the relationship just became boring and unenjoyably.
Well, fear not, it happens to many relationships even some of the once you think are the most perfect relationship have going through these at some point, but the point is that they came out of it and your relationship to can come out of it too if you apply some of the steps listed here.
Over the long period of time that you have been together, you must have noticed some few habits or behavior in your mate that you don’t like, most times, you don’t see them at the beginning of the relationship.
Well you should know that no one is perfect and we all have our bad habits, if you can adjust to your partner’s bad habit or overlook them, then do so. But if you can’t then you should talk to your partner in a polite way about it and you two can work things out or find a middle ground.
Do you have a book were you list and store the mistakes of your partner? This can be like a mental book, you are always waiting for the right time to use your partner’s mistake against him/her or waiting for your partners “cup to full” as some will put it.
Well, for your information, the cup will be full one day and it is going to pure all over you relationship and then you are going to regret losing that wonderful person you have just because of some little mistake. The faster you learn how to forgive the little mistakes, the longer and healthier your relationship will be.
Have you and your partner always go to the same restaurant? Or always watch movies at home or at the same cinema or take trips to the same location during holidays? If your answer to these questions is yes, then you relationship can be in a big danger. Doing the same thing over and over again can make your relationship boring, monotonous and predictable.