Alfred Aneson
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Conflict Resolution Expert/Marriage and Family Therapist
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Osuofia in London
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Fela Anikolakpo Kuti
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The Bible
What I like about Nigeria
Hello Nigeria and Nigerians!! Great News for you everyone! The greatest day of 2017 is coming to Nigerian Cities and I am so excited to be the first to announce it to you!! Hip Hip!! Hurrah!!!
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Conflict Resolution: Rebuilding Relationships/Family Restoration.
I n our years as counselors, therapists, conflict resolution experts, it has become common place for people in “challenged relationships” to point fingers on someone else other than themselves. Many couples hardly admit their individual contribution or lack thereof that may have led to the crises in their relationships. [Including business-partners, Managers, Directors, Politicians].
It is vital to always look inwards and ask some crucial and honest questions to ourselves. What did I contribute or failed to contribute to this “situation”? For couples contemplating divorce or who are already in court to get divorce: what happened? When did things change from “my sweetheart”, “my pumpkin pie”, “my sweet-potato pie”, “my cherry pie”, “the love of my life” to “that man” or “that" woman”?
The truth of the matter is that the party in conflict are often obscured from the truth and as a result, they may not really focus on the real issue that created the discord because they are so far apart now in their broken relationship to discover the real cause of their problems/crises. Sitting down to try to resolve their differences does not always happen at this point. Most times, the people in challenged relationships allow so much time to pass that reconciliation seem impossible.
This is where we come in to help them through our various methods and simulations to “rediscover and recover” the lost glory of their relationships. The beauty of our process is that unlike the court system where a Judge hands over a decision (after the attorneys may have exposed the couple to ridicule and sometimes humiliation, exposing their “dirty laundry in public”); the disputing parties play active roles in discovering the real cause of conflict and make decisions, likable to them that best resolves the dispute.
Why is this important someone may ask? The driving force in the life of all human beings, take it or leave it is “EGO”. This is a force that has driven many relationships to the “mud” because the egotist may never acknowledge his/her wrong(s) and this makes reconciliation difficult. The ability to tell our staff the truth (negotiation in good faith), and the willingness to sincerely apologize when at fault will move the engine of reconciliation faster than you can imagine. “I can’t stand this man/woman” but you forget that out of the millions of people you have come of course, you choose this same individual as the “the best thing that ever happened to you”?

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