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Alex Wise is CEO of Loveawake.com free dating site and relationship coach. He works with single men and women who feel like life is passing them by and helps them to get clear on what they really want and finally make their dreams happen. Through his tips and advices, Alex helps his clients simplify the process of taking back their power and create an extraordinary life. He also loves sharing meaningful content that educates and inspires people to bring their dreams into reality. He has been covering online dating, relationships, breakups and marriage niche since 2008.

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Reunited With a High-School Love

Posted on November 13, 2018 at 5:44pm 0 Comments

Here's how one couple waited 40 years before finally tying the knot: 



Rondey and Steve had been high-school sweethearts, brought up in their San Diego neighborhood where they played together since they were 9 and 11 years old, respectively. They dated exclusively for three years at Crawford High School; but because of two sets of very strict parents, resorted to writing notes to each other, which Rondey's little brother would deliver for 25 cents each. 



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Want A Long-Lasting Relationship? Read This.

Posted on July 10, 2018 at 6:30pm 0 Comments

The best way to know how and why something works is to go directly to the source: people who have made it work. That's why I like this article, 25 Secrets To A Loving, Lasting Marriage, from YourTango.com. The author interviewed couples who've been married from ten to 50 years…

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Want A Long-Lasting Relationship? Read This.

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The best way to know how and why something works is to go directly to the source: people who have made it work. That's why I like this article, 25 Secrets To A Loving, Lasting Marriage, from YourTango.com. The author interviewed couples who've been married from ten to 50 years…

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Should women minimize their accomplishments to make men feel adequate?

Posted on June 20, 2018 at 1:19pm 0 Comments

ABSOLUTELY NOT!

Ladies your achievements and accolades are commendable for sure but, most men (who may not be as driven or accomplished, or insecure) will perceive your “success” and “achievements” as the definition of who you are as a person, therefore, feeling “out of your league”. Believe it or not, this interpretation is more common than…

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At 3:45pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:45pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

So, what’s going on? I asked Jim, one of the guys I see at the gym.

I don’t know know him too well, but he’s often been on the treadmill or the elliptical machine at the same time I have. So, we have a casual friendship. We talk about his work, his wife, Laura, and their two girls, and I talk my work, The Kid and Sean.

This weekend, Jim looked more ragged than what a long week and a hard workout would do to you.

“I’m not quite sure,” he said.

“What do you mean?”

“It’s Laura. She told me that she needs
some space.”

My right foot flew off the stationary bike.

“Oh,” I said, trying hard to sound neutral.

“What do you think that means?”

Oh dear. Well, I know what it means, but I’m
not sure he really wanted to hear the truth.

At 3:44pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:44pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

I have never hit a woman and never would. I was raised to protect women and any sign of a man getting physical with his woman in front of me will cause me to react.

I do not believe in violence unless it is absolutely necessary to protect yourself or someone else….and teach my children the same principals.

At 3:44pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:44pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

I don’t think men would be embarrassed by spousal abuse as there is the cultural chastisement from child hood “What? You are going to hit a girl?”.

Then again I’ve never been hit by a woman outside of my childhood or a karate class.

The comments I read here made me think that Kat is right that guys should speak up as they could end up holding the financial and legal bag.

For example, a small, maladjusted/violent spouse hits a man many times, he hits her once to stop it, she gets a mark, she goes to the police, she lies, the police/courts automatically take her side, etc.

At 3:44pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:43pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

Jim — I am sorry to hear that, and I am sorry you felt ashamed. My title, BTW, is me being facetious — hope you realize that. No one “deserves” to be abused.

KC — well, that sucks. I do put people who live with mental illness in a different category, though. None of us who don’t have bipolar or depression or ADD — the whole lot — can know what it’s like. I tend to have compassion. Still, if the person isn’t take care of it through whatever means — therapy, drugs, both — then that’s different. Can’t live with your head in the sand.

T — That was smart of you. I did that; the smack was at the exact moment of recognition of reality. The aftermath was sad and painful, but nonviolent.

SF — It’s good to know that if the cops are called, a report is filed. However, if a man (or woman) doesn’t report it — and many men, at least, don’t — then there’s nothing.

Dads — so, are you excusing her for her “long history”? I hope not. I know patterns are extremely hard to break. But to continue a pattern of abuse or alcoholism and have that be OK is, well, not OK.

Brian — Couldn’t agree more: When you engage in physical violence, you cross a line that once crossed, can’t be stepped back on. Period.

Steve — Exactly — there is a double standard (did you click on the YouTube link?) Until we, as a society, talk about that openly, it will continue.

At 3:43pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:43pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

At the same time, if it’s a full blown bonk that you are after, fine, go for it, but girls, don’t feel bad or blame anyone if it doesn’t go further than that. Tell yourself the truth about what you want. Unless you are drugged or forcibly raped, it’s your decision. Guys, if you are just out for sex, please don’t tell lies in order to get it. You can learn to make women feel so good that, if its right for them, they will want to do it with you.

The key is that we are all responsible for our own feelings around what we do. We can choose to feel good or bad, embarrassed or accepting.

At 3:42pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:42pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

Ladies, remember to tell yourself the truth. So many women I know want to attract a man, but are unwilling to go through what they consider the demeaning ritual of displaying their desire. They expect men to pick up on their signals of readiness, whilst they are working full time to disguise them. Often this leads to flirting with the wrong men..safe men. One of the Flirting Weekend participants, Linda, confessed to me this pattern was so strong in her that she ended up marrying the wrong man!

It is possible to show a man that you are interested without full sexual readiness display.

At 3:42pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 3:42pm on May 6, 2021, Alex Wise said…

We all associate highly emotional and individualised charge to different words and despite being the universal building blocks of our language, each word will holds very specific meaning or meanings for each individual. As an example take any word and ask a friend what it means to them. Chances are it could have some very different associations.

Language can be used in many ways to guide people to specific experiences without being specific. It’s an art form, it works and it can be taught but until you master the skills of linguistic experience generators be very careful about what you say. When you think it, it will probably leak out naturally and you will be communicating at an unconscious primal level with honesty.

At 4:19pm on April 28, 2021, Alex Wise said…

Brian — when I was a kid, I used to think people could watch me from like anywhere. Made me not pick my nose (too much …) http://katwilder.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";-)" class="wp-smiley"/>

Mindy — Has anyone ever asked you to? No one’s asked me, but then again, I think of poor Erin Andrews …

Steve — You mean, it … hasn’t? Dang!

T — and me, too, OK? http://katwilder.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";-)" class="wp-smiley"/>

KC — and so how come I haven’t been invited to watch, hmmm….?

Matt — Gee, I’m starting to feel like even if I had a tape on the Net, no one would even be interested in watching! Now, I feel bad!

BLW — True, although there aren’t many people I see on a daily basis that I’d like to see naked, know what I mean?

At 4:19pm on April 28, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 5:18pm on March 26, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 4:38pm on March 24, 2021, Alex Wise said…

Dear Bitter Single Guy: Well ok. So about 7 months I met this guy and we started dating and stuff. But we both didn’t even know each other and pretty much based the relationship off looks. So of course we broke up but still continued to talk and then we got to know each other and stuff and now I find myself liking him more than I have ever liked anyone else. He tells me how much he likes me and acts like it in person (usually) but like usually right after the day we’ve hung out he acts all weird like he doesn’t want to talk to me and like kind of closes up. And plus we aren’t official or anything and have both been somewhat talking to other people. Should i try and forget about him before I get hurt, or should i try to keep going for him. Oh and might I add he has hurt me before badly! But he said he’s changed and likes me so much. ~I Want Him Back~

Dear IWHB: The Bitter Single Guy thinks you’re working too hard for this. The BSG sees how you could have gotten together just for looks (not the first time that’s ever happened, IWHB), and sees also how it could have ended pretty quickly if you didn’t know each other.

But at this point, your Baffling Beau needs to step up to the plate if he’s also feeling like you two should try again. If, as you say, he gets like, all weird and stuff after you’ve hung out, to hell with him. Wait for him to call you, wait for him to ask you out.

You ask if you should try and forget him before you get hurt, but the BSG and you know that you’re already hurt IWHB. Take a step back.

At 4:35pm on March 24, 2021, Alex Wise said…
At 5:34pm on March 17, 2021, Alex Wise said…

I think I may have changed my mind about the Crocs. I was never interested in them before, and my daughter would never let me buy any, http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" class="wp-smiley"/> . Now after looking at the new styles, I feel I could give that a try.

As for me, I am slowly changing some big parts of my personality. After working from home for the last 8 years my natural introverted tendencies have become overpowering. I am now in school to become a physical therapist, which is the total opposite of being an introvert, and slowly coming out of my shell. At times it is a very painful process, but in the end I am happier to see my self working with people, helping them really is helping me.

 
 
 

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