I am a civil servant. I had a gf in a another dept. We've been lovers for close to a year until I was told dt she was going out with one of the new members of staff. In a rage, I phoned ds man who was trying to snatch my girl & warned him to leave her alone if he doesn't want any trouble. D man later complained to my girl & she's now chosen him over me. I feel so frustrated & unhappy.…