WHAT WILL U DO IF U DISCOVER UR WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER EX...

Will u pardon her bcos he is her ex-boyfriend or u will divorce her?

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Permalink Reply by Charles morris on May 9, 2011 at 6:03pm
U don't hv 2 commit murder bcos she going out wit her Ex.whnever u catch her wit such unthinkable attitude u've 2 send her away as d Bible stated.
Permalink Reply by Okolobah Efe Michael on May 9, 2011 at 8:30pm
Hmmmm, i pray it doesnt happen, but if it happens nobody here should beg me o
Permalink Reply by Okolobah Efe Michael on May 9, 2011 at 8:30pm
Hmmmm, i pray it doesnt happen, but if it happens nobody here should beg me o
Permalink Reply by Sylvester Imeh on May 9, 2011 at 9:31pm
If such things happen she will go with d X then i will look for my Y. The Bible is on my side.
Permalink Reply by chris Ndu on May 9, 2011 at 11:46pm
It is a very difficult situation,No one prays to find himself there,But,there is no one thing one can do in such situation,Divorce might be the first thought,also,if it was a one off,then,The condition of the marriage,if Children are involved and considering the duration of the marriage as well.The problem we have is that we still have this backward thinking that Adultery is good for the man,but it is abomination for the woman,The truth is that,it is wrong for both.Some body said here,'I'll send her packing' I don't know how old you are,or how long you have been married,just pray that this doesn't happen to you.If the woman earns 10 times your income,then your opinion might change.I'll never wish this on any body,There is no one answer to this.
Permalink Reply by Nwogwugwu Ike. S on May 10, 2011 at 2:03am
That is a very nice question, however, what will make a married woman have sex with another man be it ex-boy friend or whatever? You see! Many husbands dont take their wife as a friend or lover, some dont value their wife, others dont listen or pay attention, marriage is ñöt all about providing money, remeber during boyfriend/girlfriend time there are stupid things in quote we do that makes the relationship thick, some of these things are needed ín mariage, wh€ñ yöü fäí£ tö dö th€m, th€ wömäñ £óök €£ß€wh€r€
Permalink Reply by osita David on May 10, 2011 at 10:25am
To me, divorcing her is not the best. I know is hard to endure. What I will do is to call her attention, try to know her reason for that if I haven't done such before. In a situation where she proves stubborn, I will invite my third party intervener, the person may be a Priest, Rev., depending on one's choice. I'm sure the matter will be resolved. Knowing that there is no smoke without fire. The man may be the cause, but his own deals is hidden.
Permalink Reply by Charles Ugochukwu Okere on May 10, 2011 at 10:57am
Divorce will be the last option.  Human beings do err.  I will try to find out why she did it and ty to correct her and stop her from going further.  But if she persists, I will presume she has made up her mind to forge ahead with her ex.  That means, the relationship is over.
Permalink Reply by AGOR on May 10, 2011 at 11:38am
The bible is clear that we are not permitted to divorce except on cases of adultery. that is to say if i caught her i would sent her away never to reconciled with her again.
Permalink Reply by Mavos on May 10, 2011 at 11:44am
Well,the situation here is somehow... She probably might have been with the boyfriend for yrs b4 u married her... In some cases,the love may have been so strong and perhaps,they could not have married each other bcos of some factors beyond their control. Such factors may be coercion from parents, poverty etc...
Permalink Reply by Agbo Jude on May 16, 2011 at 8:28pm
I agree with your pattern of thought. In any case there cant be a uniform reaction. It will all depend on circumstances. While we hope such never happens we should always be prepared to be merciful creatures.

chris Ndu said:
It is a very difficult situation,No one prays to find himself there,But,there is no one thing one can do in such situation,Divorce might be the first thought,also,if it was a one off,then,The condition of the marriage,if Children are involved and considering the duration of the marriage as well.The problem we have is that we still have this backward thinking that Adultery is good for the man,but it is abomination for the woman,The truth is that,it is wrong for both.Some body said here,'I'll send her packing' I don't know how old you are,or how long you have been married,just pray that this doesn't happen to you.If the woman earns 10 times your income,then your opinion might change.I'll never wish this on any body,There is no one answer to this.
Permalink Reply by john igolo on May 16, 2011 at 8:55pm
simply divorse her nd let her continue from where they stoped.

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