I have this notion that ladies of Northern extractions are more homely than those in the Southern part of Nigeria, and hence, could make better wives. Few yrs ago in Nigeria,I know of two of my kinsmen who married hausa ladies, and are very happy and even tel how good their wives are. I'm thinking of relocating to the North-a place that is safe enough like Kaduna-when I come back to Nigeria soon. I'm so much afraid of having a nagging woman as wife. I have seen xperiences, both of my friends and others who regrets marrying their once admirable girls. Pls,I believe I don't know all and would welcome ur contributions.

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Brs ur opinion is good but can u love woman staying at home all time , without doing any thing ? Remember they are muslem its part of their belive their wife stay at home all day long without doing any secular job , if ur muslem and love such wife its oky but if ur christian and u mary a hausa christian girl who loves the idea then its splendid , my brother nagging wife is worst thing any man can dream of instead let me remain unmarried cos it killes man quick bye
Mavos, i wil start by defining marriage. Marriage is a blessed institution made by God himself. So u see that if God watch not the city, the watchman watcheth in vain. I want u 2 start seeing marriage the way God designed it 2 be. Dont venture into marriage wit dis notion of northern, southern stuff. Settle down nd ask 4 direction frm God nd belive me, he has a wife 4 u here in Naija. She is not a northerner. A trial will convince u. Be safe.
Northern or Southern,There are good women every where.You saw few good Northern women,Have u seen bad ones?There are good and bad women every where.just open your eyes!!!
Hi Mr Mavos, i would advise you to stay where u are and pray dat God will give u ur own bone bcos He is the giver of wife, bcos i've in my Bible: be thou contended with what you have. So don't have any eronous belief about marrying a northerner.
Hi, i hardly run into conclusion on anything that concerns human behaviour...cos its dynamical, not static. The northerns, or the southerns are good..,but each individual has the good and bad aspect. Thnks
Hi, i hardly run into conclusion on anything that concerns human behaviour...cos its dynamical, not static. The northerns, or the southerns are good..,but each individual has the good and bad aspect. Thnks
Hi, i hardly run into conclusion on anything that concerns human behaviour...cos its dynamical, not static. The northerns, or the southerns are good..,but each individual has the good and bad aspect. Thnks
Its true but wen good tins ar much 1 nids 2 b kiaful cos many evil hyd unda ds notion and prtnd as if they ar saind
Thnks 4ur inputs! Granted,there are good and bad women everywhere,but it was on a general note I made my notion-that we have more cool-headed ladies in the North than in the south. Perhaps, u can agree with me that culture and environment(thou they have their merits and demerits) play roles in defining the individuality of people,and by extension,the degree of badness or goodness of a person. From the few African countries I have visited,I can tel u that Nigerian ladies generally have their better sides which I extol. Still among the best Nigeria can offer in terms of women, I think,this time,culture and environment has favoured it to the North. This does not in anyway undermine the individual character or behaviour-which is very important in marriage, but also "dynamical and not static" like Lyna has said.
Mavos, good women abound every where.  Even in that place you are risiding, you can get a dozens of them who are marriable, homely, loving and well nutured.  It all depends on what you want.  Before I conclude, I need to remind you that the north has the highest rate of divorce cases in Nigeria. 
The higher rate of divorce comes as a demerit, and are 99% attributable to their men,who are highly polygamous, and exploit the 'cool-headedness' of these women. We all know that women are largely treated without dignity and respect in the North. Try it in the south- and be ready to be announcing obituary of men everyday... Lol!

Charles Ugochukwu Okere said:
Mavos, good women abound every where.  Even in that place you are risiding, you can get a dozens of them who are marriable, homely, loving and well nutured.  It all depends on what you want.  Before I conclude, I need to remind you that the north has the highest rate of divorce cases in Nigeria. 

one thing i know is that nagging woman never carries any ID, whether north, south, west, east.

Jst pray to have an understanding partner who will also be ur friend. And u too brother, how well are u gonna play ur part to make it a happy union. Remember, it takes two ppl to do the tango dance!

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