MARRIED FOR TEN YEARS WITHOUT SEX

A woman who has been married for ten years is seeking advice from the public.

 

She got married ten years ago. Before marriage, she insisted on sleeping with the fianc'e (Now the husband), but he refused saying that they must not commit fornication.On their wedding night, thinking she would have her husband all to herself,he complained of tiredness and slept in the guest room.

After marriage, he cultivated the habit of giving one excuse or the other. The wife became confused after three years of thier marriage. She went and reported the issue to her in-laws who told her to be calm that they would talk to their son. she came back home telling the husband that she has reported the him to his parents. then the man became sober and told the wife that he has be impotent from birth. The wife encouraged him to see a doctor to remedy the situation, of which he refused.

 

The wife went on her own to seek help from so many doctors and came back with drugs prescribed by the doctors . The husband as well rejected the drugs.

 

During this trying period, no member of her family knew what was hapening in her marriage becuase; she decided to keep it all to her self without disclosing it to anybody.

 

She is now fed up she decided to leave for her parents house after ten years of marriage without sex. She left but the husband came begging that she should come back home that he cannot do without her.

 

What is your advice. Should she go back or quit the marriage.?

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Permalink Reply by Slyvanus Eze Anyanwu on April 13, 2011 at 4:04pm
This is intresting, my dear don't be fed up it has alredy happened,what you will do is to ask God to intervain in you problems because He is the only remedy am also advising you to see TB Joshua for prayers. Good luck.
Permalink Reply by Johnbacco on April 13, 2011 at 4:45pm
Wat dis man have done is more dan wickedness,evil,murderer.D woman even went 2 d extent of seeking solution 2 d problem bt dis man refused.wat are shameless man.well d choice frm 4 d woman n can decide 2 go back or nt.
Permalink Reply by Johnbacco on April 13, 2011 at 4:47pm
Wat dis man have done is more dan wickedness,evil,murderer.D woman even went 2 d extent of seeking solution 2 d problem bt dis man refused.wat are shameless man.well d choice frm 4 d woman n can decide 2 go back or nt.
Permalink Reply by Johnbacco on April 13, 2011 at 4:48pm
Wat dis man have done is more dan wickedness,evil,murderer.D woman even went 2 d extent of seeking solution 2 d problem bt dis man refused.wat are shameless man.well d choice frm 4 d woman n can decide 2 go back or nt.
Permalink Reply by Johnbacco on April 13, 2011 at 4:49pm
Wat dis man have done is more dan wickedness,evil,murderer.D woman even went 2 d extent of seeking solution 2 d problem bt dis man refused.wat are shameless man.well d choice frm 4 d woman n can decide 2 go back or nt.
Permalink Reply by Gloria Dafeyerakpo on April 14, 2011 at 9:11am
LOL

Slyvanus Eze Anyanwu said:
This is intresting, my dear don't be fed up it has alredy happened,what you will do is to ask God to intervain in you problems because He is the only remedy am also advising you to see TB Joshua for prayers. Good luck.
Permalink Reply by Benson Ndaji on April 19, 2011 at 10:58pm

This is a pathetic story if it is true. What is marriage without sex? The man who talked about fornication, what church denomination does he belong? If he belongs to a denomination, the wife should go to the leaders of their church to seek for solution.

If it were that they have sex but there is no child that should be a different thing. In that case they have to adopt a child. Since the man is impotent, he deceived the wife. In this case, the church can separate them because it is a peculiar case. Even if they adopt a child now, what of enjoyment of sex by the wife? Will she endure it? If actually she has not been enjoying sex somewhere else since all these years having been living with a man, I adjudge her a very strong woman. But if the man does not belong to any denomination, then that should be settled by their people traditionally. If they arrange for a man that would be impregnating her, the man(who would be impregnating her) could later on claim the the children. This is a dicey situation. The best option is separation in a legitimate way.

 

However, there is nothing God cannot do if they resort to prayers provided they are strong children of God who have strong faith in what God can do.

Permalink Reply by Gloria Dafeyerakpo on April 20, 2011 at 9:04am
Thank you

Benson Ndaji said:

This is a pathetic story if it is true. What is marriage without sex? The man who talked about fornication, what church denomination does he belong? If he belongs to a denomination, the wife should go to the leaders of their church to seek for solution.

If it were that they have sex but there is no child that should be a different thing. In that case they have to adopt a child. Since the man is impotent, he deceived the wife. In this case, the church can separate them because it is a peculiar case. Even if they adopt a child now, what of enjoyment of sex by the wife? Will she endure it? If actually she has not been enjoying sex somewhere else since all these years having been living with a man, I adjudge her a very strong woman. But if the man does not belong to any denomination, then that should be settled by their people traditionally. If they arrange for a man that would be impregnating her, the man(who would be impregnating her) could later on claim the the children. This is a dicey situation. The best option is separation in a legitimate way.

 

However, there is nothing God cannot do if they resort to prayers provided they are strong children of God who have strong faith in what God can do.

Permalink Reply by Kolade paul on April 20, 2011 at 9:18am
She nid d direction of GOD.Bcos marriage is 4 better 4 whorst.thuogh thier marriage lack truth 4rm d beginning.
Permalink Reply by Adeniyi Shobajo on April 20, 2011 at 10:04am
This's ridiculous.
The woman has proved her fidelity beyond resonable doubt, but the man (her husband) lied for about 10yrs.
If she were my sister I'll make sure she divorce her husband for her to be happy. Imagine growing old and seeing Ur grandchildren play around you.
So sister leave before time runs up on you.
Permalink Reply by Adeniyi Shobajo on April 20, 2011 at 10:06am
This's ridiculous.
The woman has proved her fidelity beyond resonable doubt, but the man (her husband) lied for about 10yrs.
If she were my sister I'll make sure she divorce her husband for her to be happy. Imagine growing old and seeing Ur grandchildren play around you.
So sister leave before time runs up on you.
Permalink Reply by AGOR on April 20, 2011 at 12:35pm
This woman need to be liberated, but one thing she did not tell us is  weather she was involved in an extra marital affair or not . cos it only takes the Grace of God  for a functional person to stay without sex  for ten yrs  talk less of not having a child . this woman should divorce immediately without delay before she regret in near future.

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