A woman who has been married for ten years is seeking advice from the public.

 

She got married ten years ago. Before marriage, she insisted on sleeping with the fianc'e (Now the husband), but he refused saying that they must not commit fornication.On their wedding night, thinking she would have her husband all to herself,he complained of tiredness and slept in the guest room.

After marriage, he cultivated the habit of giving one excuse or the other. The wife became confused after three years of thier marriage. She went and reported the issue to her in-laws who told her to be calm that they would talk to their son. she came back home telling the husband that she has reported the him to his parents. then the man became sober and told the wife that he has be impotent from birth. The wife encouraged him to see a doctor to remedy the situation, of which he refused.

 

The wife went on her own to seek help from so many doctors and came back with drugs prescribed by the doctors . The husband as well rejected the drugs.

 

During this trying period, no member of her family knew what was hapening in her marriage becuase; she decided to keep it all to her self without disclosing it to anybody.

 

She is now fed up she decided to leave for her parents house after ten years of marriage without sex. She left but the husband came begging that she should come back home that he cannot do without her.

 

What is your advice. Should she go back or quit the marriage.?

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both couple should arrange for contract with a male to pregnant her wife, so that they will not be childless.
is it that easy

Mequz Leonard said:
both couple should arrange for contract with a male to pregnant her wife, so that they will not be childless.


What is ur advice


Mavos said:

U have really carried me along the line of ur arguement.Thanks!

Ogheneruona Francis Usiaphre said:
There was no marriage in d first instance because it has not been consummated(1COR 7:3).if she wants to pity the man,she would burned with sexual desire,which in itself a sin. 1COR 7:9c.

She is confused
Francisca A. Johnson said:
The story is funny just as someone rightly said. How can a normal human being with complete feelings not have sex for 10yrs? Maybe from that marriage anyway. I have a different view from others. People will never tell you what they do in secret except it is revealed by God.
If she is comfortable with the situation fine and good, otherwise she has the final choice to make. No one has the will to decide how you enjoy your life.


Charles Ugochukwu Okere said:
The story is funny as it is pathetic.  Funny because a man who knows he has been impotent from birth ought not to have gone into marriage in the first place.  Pathetic because the poor girl is dying in silence.  For a man to have starved his wife the most vital aspect of marriage is a sacrilege. However, the woman has to decide her future.  If she can continue to endure and die in silence for the rest of her life, then let her return to the husband, otherwise, she should consider the marriage dead.
True talk indeed. What's is your advice to people like this man in the society

how credible is dis story? or is it one of those make up stories dat make rounds. cos i ve heard similar stories, bt different versions.

but if it's true, it's a marriage built on deception and lies. even though d woman did come to accept d reality and still tried to support him nd yet received no cooperation from him. if she want to go now, she would hv deserved it.

 

@Gloria. My advice is that the woman should go for artificial insemination where donated sperms(if the man's sperm is tested to be inactive) wil make her have children,that is,if she decides to stay in the marriage. Or else...
she has been faithful all this while

Gloria Dafeyerakpo said:

She is confused
Francisca A. Johnson said:
The story is funny just as someone rightly said. How can a normal human being with complete feelings not have sex for 10yrs? Maybe from that marriage anyway. I have a different view from others. People will never tell you what they do in secret except it is revealed by God.
If she is comfortable with the situation fine and good, otherwise she has the final choice to make. No one has the will to decide how you enjoy your life.
Mavos you are right.  It is a perfect approach except the story is not a true one.

Mavos said:
@Gloria. My advice is that the woman should go for artificial insemination where donated sperms(if the man's sperm is tested to be inactive) wil make her have children,that is,if she decides to stay in the marriage. Or else...

Noted

 

she should quit d marriage bcos d man is nt ready 2 help d situation.

Frankly speaking, if you are in the man's shoe what would u do?

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