A woman who has been married for ten years is seeking advice from the public.

 

She got married ten years ago. Before marriage, she insisted on sleeping with the fianc'e (Now the husband), but he refused saying that they must not commit fornication.On their wedding night, thinking she would have her husband all to herself,he complained of tiredness and slept in the guest room.

After marriage, he cultivated the habit of giving one excuse or the other. The wife became confused after three years of thier marriage. She went and reported the issue to her in-laws who told her to be calm that they would talk to their son. she came back home telling the husband that she has reported the him to his parents. then the man became sober and told the wife that he has be impotent from birth. The wife encouraged him to see a doctor to remedy the situation, of which he refused.

 

The wife went on her own to seek help from so many doctors and came back with drugs prescribed by the doctors . The husband as well rejected the drugs.

 

During this trying period, no member of her family knew what was hapening in her marriage becuase; she decided to keep it all to her self without disclosing it to anybody.

 

She is now fed up she decided to leave for her parents house after ten years of marriage without sex. She left but the husband came begging that she should come back home that he cannot do without her.

 

What is your advice. Should she go back or quit the marriage.?

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she should quit, he deceived her from the beginning. she deserves more from him. If 1 is impotent let your fiancee know
let her quit the marriage
Hmmm!!! Speechless! Wel,for her to have endured for 10yrs shows she is a rare gem. Out of love,I think the man should have set this woman free b/4 now;he is wicked for deceiving her. The woman should decide what to do;if she decides to walk away,pls,make sure u inform me...

Is that love  or stupidity......The man deceived her right from day one without telling her the truth...Is that what is called Love?

The man is selfish without putting the interest of his wife at heart. Tear the marriage certificate and go away. If you love your wife, you have to tell her things about yourself  and the other way round too. Listen to  Phil Colins:....Your true color that is why I love you don't be afraid to let it out.......

The story is funny as it is pathetic.  Funny because a man who knows he has been impotent from birth ought not to have gone into marriage in the first place.  Pathetic because the poor girl is dying in silence.  For a man to have starved his wife the most vital aspect of marriage is a sacrilege. However, the woman has to decide her future.  If she can continue to endure and die in silence for the rest of her life, then let her return to the husband, otherwise, she should consider the marriage dead.
Credit to this woman for staying off sex for 10 years,Despite being married.The man is a deceiver,It is her decision to make.Stay and have no sex for life or walk and live your life to the fullest.Let her decide.
Sister this is the movie of the year , if the man is impotent let the wife decide if she didn't need babies who will take care of her in old age , how could human be such wicked , ar u sure the man is not in society ? Is it only impotent ? I douth how such live could exist a marriage without sex , the woman is a hero , how can she stay without sex for ten years ? She rely try for that , let her decide if she want to sacrifice her cos of a man or live and plan her future
There was no marriage in d first instance because it has not been consummated(1COR 7:3).if she wants to pity the man,she would burned with sexual desire,which in itself a sin. 1COR 7:9c.
U have really carried me along the line of ur arguement.Thanks!

Ogheneruona Francis Usiaphre said:
There was no marriage in d first instance because it has not been consummated(1COR 7:3).if she wants to pity the man,she would burned with sexual desire,which in itself a sin. 1COR 7:9c.
The story is funny just as someone rightly said. How can a normal human being with complete feelings not have sex for 10yrs? Maybe from that marriage anyway. I have a different view from others. People will never tell you what they do in secret except it is revealed by God.
If she is comfortable with the situation fine and good, otherwise she has the final choice to make. No one has the will to decide how you enjoy your life.
i must confess dat this story is so complicated to my own understanding and i'm not call to pass judgement..., but my addition is dat ' a spade must be called a spade' de man decieved de woman but let de woman decide on what to do (according to my architectural designing lecturer 'let ur sin of judgement be upon u and not him)
What are u mean.

Lyna pau Opara said:
i must confess dat this story is so complicated to my own understanding and i'm not call to pass judgement..., but my addition is dat ' a spade must be called a spade' de man decieved de woman but let de woman decide on what to do (according to my architectural designing lecturer 'let ur sin of judgement be upon u and not him)

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