...is human a problem to polygamy or is polygamy a problem to man? Why is it that some complain about it while others do not.ie muslims and Arabs? Why is it that some cultures thrive so well with it while others do not? Because I once met a lady-a muslim from Nassarawa- who told me she wants to be a 2nd wife,not the 1st. She simply do not want to fit in the role of being the 1st wife-was her reason. U can see! For her, she enjoys polygamy. We have a man in Nigeria-I think he's called Masaba or so-who's marrying abt 100 wives with hundreds of children, and none of them has ever complain or lack any needs. There is another one in Enugu,an ibo man with abt 40 wives and children,and all living happily. So, my question still resurfaces,'Are we the problem or is polygamy the problem?'