Can one find a good guy on this our community to rely on, bc i learnt dat what all de guys want is sex, but is sex really d mark of luv, Y is it den dat in friendship' it is always sticked to by gals/guys.. pls i need a man dat wil regard sex as a secondary issue and not a primary issue. but regards natural luv in dating. Cos i hv now abolish d sexual act b4 natural luv comes-in in relationship. I am preparing myself 4 marriage, i dont want to get 25yrs at my parent hse, since i hv grown to norture feelings and to men's admiration. Thks.

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My dear you can meet real people here,The truth is that in a Man/Woman Relationship Sex is part of it.If u find out that all the guy wants is to sleep with u,then u have to run away fast.But to have a long term Relationship and when the issue of sex comes up,u have to understand that it is all part of it.As for being 25 years at your parents house,at that age you are still too young to panic,Don't rush into marriage just b/c u are approaching 25,it is way too early to get worried.I'll tell u this story why some men always ask for sex.Many young girls ask any man they see for money,I live in the UK and have seen Girls asking for money from a man that is not related to u,Why will u accept/demand money from a stranger and then complain of his sexual advances?U want his money and he want ur body.So if u want respect,stand your ground and don't rush to ask a man u hardly know for money as he might want a reward for his investment.U can find a true friend and possibly a husband here,That i can guarantee.If u believe that u won't have sex until the ring fits in your finger,Let the man know...
@chris. That was a good one. In addition, men differs, one good man may be different from another in regard to sex. Demand for sex does not always mean the man is fake. What appeals to a man most that may make him propose to u is ur behaviour and understanding u give to him. All the same, Lyna,like chris said u are stil young,don't panic. And u can get ur man thru any funny means,it could be on this network,in a party, school etc. As this discussion unfolds, I wil give u examples, both mine and that of others that wil help u. I like ur courage and sense of maturity to have brot this matter forward on this network. And I'm sure of ur success in achieving ur desire.
All has been said, in addition just be focus. Sex is part of relationship, at times it comes naturally but its not the major thing. You will even discover at a point u might be d one that want it even when the guy says no. We have seen issues like that where girls leave their bf all because they cant get the desired sex they want from the guy thereby cheating on the guy. Dont programme your mind towards no sex before marriage. It hardly works. Just be good in your relationship and be focus. Definitely guys will want good girls to themselves.
Besides, it is true that God choose our parent for us, but friends, we choose ourselves and we make our own decision. So to get the type of relationship you want, you have to put your life in a vision and whoever cannot follow that vison cannot be your friend. With that you can even meet your life partner in this community.
Thnks Mustapha 4 ur contribution..
my pleasure.

Lyna pau Opara said:
Thnks Mustapha 4 ur contribution..
I love your decision.  Love is one word that has been grossly abused by mankind.  What we call love is in the real sense  infatuation.  If you want to have a feel of true love, pray to God for someone of like mind with you.  Then conduct yourself with decorum and maturity. God will definitly show you the way.
Amen oooo, one has to rely on God
lyna 100% sure if u ar stil a virgin dont panic just stand ur ground until whit weding u wil definetly het it I said until white wedin y b/cos I know sombody oposit my hous dat bcos he tried to sex the girl and d girl insistd on mariag fest b4 sex so he went 4 tradi and afta which d gel gave up 4 da sex and afta da sex he dumpd d gel and went to mary another woman he he is livin with now. But 4 me if u ar stil virgin keep it tith its a great value 2 u.
B*******! Being a virgin or not has nothing to do with sucessful marriage or true love. Guys marry girls that were ones like whores and are known to lead happy married life than so that of virgins. With the grace of God, compatibility based on mutual love, respect, and understanding are what really matters. Being a virgin is not bad. It is a pride and a virtue between u and ur God.
Juano,Grow up and stop this,what has being a virgin got to do with a Loving and responsible relationship?I've seen former sex workers live happily and have Children for their husbands.Keeping ones virginity is great,but that does not mean that the girl is good as a wife,Virginity are lost in one sex,while good characters stand the test of time.

juano lawrence said:
lyna 100% sure if u ar stil a virgin dont panic just stand ur ground until whit weding u wil definetly het it I said until white wedin y b/cos I know sombody oposit my hous dat bcos he tried to sex the girl and d girl insistd on mariag fest b4 sex so he went 4 tradi and afta which d gel gave up 4 da sex and afta da sex he dumpd d gel and went to mary another woman he he is livin with now. But 4 me if u ar stil virgin keep it tith its a great value 2 u.
what I want to say is dis, we cant decide who to to be with is only nature dat can. So just stay coll and ur MR wil surely find u and when he does u wil fil his present.

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